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Think you know all there is to know
about picking up women?
You will be surprised at these 8
mistakes most men make when trying to
approach a woman they like.
1. Starting Out On The Defensive Ironically, the mistake a lot of men make
when it comes to approaching women
simply fearing the worst. This isn't
always true (at all), but once you start
believing it is you'll immediately be on
the backfoot, trying to think of solutions to problems that really, haven't even
arisen. The last thing you want to do is
see any woman as a 'challenge' or as
though you need to learn any 'tricks' to
persuade potential partners to talk to
you. Doing this will be what puts women off, not the things you were
initially worried about. Forget what
you've heard, approaching a woman is
not about game-playing. Women will
always rather get to know a friendly
guy who means what he says than someone who's trying to play it cool.
2. Wrong Place:
Everywhere you go is not a pick up
zone -- you have to thoughtfully work
out where you can actually approach
women you don't know. There is no point striking up conversation with a
potential partner if they are already in a
situation where they don't feel like
flirting: you're dooming yourself to
failure. For instance, t's a safe bet to
stick to bars, when women are more often than not feeling their best and
already in the mood for socialising and
open to getting to know people. The
buzzy atmosphere of a bar also means
that you can casually make
conversation with less fear of rejection. Pick the right place where you know
she isn't feeling stressed out or busy.
3. Not Being sensitive to the situation:
Sometimes, women just want to go out
drinking and dancing. So seeing girl out
having a good time does not necessarily mean they want to be
approached by men. Be prepared that
chances are that most people won't be
that interested in hanging out with
strangers when they're out to have a laugh with their mates. And if you get the vibe that you've interrupted a night
that you're not welcome on (if she's not
continuing the conversation, if she's
more interested in her friends) then
just amicably excuse yourself to the bar
and carry on with your night.
4. Being too drunk:
Being with a man who is in control is
important to women. Women don't
want to be with a guy we have to force
feed water during a night out, help go
to the loo or keep from getting into fights at the bar. You're also way more
to get distracted from the woman
you're trying to talk to by other women,
slur your words and just be generally
unapologetic and annoying. Until you're
well into a relationship, avoid getting too drunk.
5.Using Pick-up Lines:
Sorry, guys, but everything you've
learned about using pickup lines to
start a conversation with women is
dead wrong. There is nothing cheesier, less interesting or more of a turnoff
than a guy who uses a standard
opening line. Why? It shows he lacks
confidence,
It shows he's
literally spent time reading up on the
best way to approach a woman and that he needs other guys to tell him
what to say and how to act. Whatever
you do, a simple hello is better than a
bad line.
6. Not Asking Direct Questions
The worst thing a guy can do is come up to us and talk about himself for the
entirety of the conversation. If you have
to talk about how amazing you are, it's
probably because you're not. Asking
questions about her life shows you're a
considerate guy, and there's more of a chance we'll feel a connection -- which
will make it much easier to get a date.
7. Being Too Touchy
As a general rule -- whether its
approaching a woman you don't yet
know, or progressing things further once you make it to the bedroom, just
echo the movements she makes
towards you. Wait for her to make the
move to make contact with you, and
then do that too. Build up to different
parts of the body, but do it following this routine. But regardless, don't do
this in the supermarket
because
although you might be getting good
vibes from your partner in crime, you
will creep out the other shoppers.
8. Concentrating Too Much On Her, Not You
Often, a guy will concentrate too much
on what a woman's reaction to him is
rather than on the conversation taking
place. If you're overthinking what
you're supposed to say and where your hands are supposed to be (in your
pockets? By your sides?), she'll know.
And it will get awkward. If anything, try
thinking of approaching a woman as
starting a conversation with a good
friend -- be casual about it, be a good listener and let her talk. Another way to
think about it: If it works out you'll gain
a date. If it doesn't, what are you really
losing?.
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